Fantasies can come true. Just ask Ann Krcik, a rock climber who dreamed
about quitting her marketing-operations job to work with fellow adventurers
in the great outdoors. She made the leap by launching
a Salt Lake City, Utah, firm that represents "extreme" athletes, signing
them up to appear in commercials, and as models and motivational speakers.
"I wanted more freedom to climb than my two-weeks-a-year vacation,"
says Ms. Krcik (pronounced crew-sick), whose work now takes her to mountain
ranges throughout the Western states. "It was a fantasy I made come
true."
By definition, fantasies are imaginary pursuits that emerge mostly during
boring meetings and long commutes. Yet they tend to represent deeply held
values or beliefs, such as living a simpler or more exciting life. While
your dreams may seem overly romantic and impossible to attain, you can
make them come true with the right attitude and a blend of determination
and skills, say career advisers.
First, be sure your dream job is financially feasible. "Most people
have to realign themselves mentally to re-engineer their lifestyles,"
says San Francisco, California, career counselor Joe Meissner. Decide whether you really
need a big house, six new suits a year and frequent meals at expensive
restaurants, he says. While abandoning an affluent lifestyle may shock
your system initially, the realization that you can live without many luxuries
"is empowering, and will release a wave of creative energy."
Seven Paths
Most job fantasies reflect one of seven personality types just waiting
to break free of corporate bonds, says Chicago, Illinois, psychotherapist Arlene Hirsch.
For aspiring career changers, these dreams likely have captured their imaginations
since childhood, but only now are they able and willing to realize them.
The seven most popular fantasies are:
- Hitting the open road.
Jack Kerouac types dream of finding freedom
traversing the country. Like the Illinois scientist who says he'd gladly
give up his "life of the mind" to drive a "big rig,"
these folks relish simplicity and independence.
- Risking it all.
Adventurers such as Ms. Krcik and her clients hunger
for physical challenges, perhaps even to live life on the edge.
- Letting creative juices flow.
Artistes seek greater self-expression
than their work offers, so they passionately pursue writing, painting,
sculpting, acting and music.
- Embracing a tropical paradise.
These folks are motivated by place and
a calmer, less-stressful existence. That describes David Dean these days,
whose job and marriage hit the skids. But instead of
scanning the classifieds for apartment rentals and job leads, the real-estate
investment adviser daydreamed about great trips he'd taken through the
years to Costa Rica. "So I got in my car and started driving south,"
says Mr. Dean, who now works in shorts and a sport shirt from his mountainside townhouse near San Jose, the capital.
"It's very friendly and laid-back here, and while it's not Tahiti,
everyone I know who visits is wowed by the spectacular scenery and comfortable
climate," he says. "And the business opportunities are great."
- Benefiting society.
Idealists hope to help others through personal
nurturing while shunning the profit-oriented goals of big business. For
instance, when Tim Barnes' retail brokerage firm was purchased,
he accepted a substantial buyout and enrolled in a one-year program for
aspiring teachers.
"I find it much more rewarding to motivate seventh graders than
it was handling securities problems," says Mr. Barnes, who now
teaches social studies and English at New York's Academy of Environmental
Science in Harlem. "It's a constructive change of focus that can really
boost your self-image."
- Returning to their roots.
Nature lovers embrace life's basic ingredients,
such as growing their own food and living in a rural or small-town environment.
- Staying close to family.
Homebodies want to maintain control over their
lives and close relationships with their spouse and children. Jan Roobian
started acting on her entreprenurial instincts two years before quitting
her job with Wells Fargo's executive-banking department in San Francisco
to launch a home-based business.
"My fantasy was to give up wearing 'Betty Banker' suits, playing
politics and commuting every day," says Ms. Roobian. To that end, she saved scrupulously and enrolled in company-reimbursed
business courses in accounting and finance.
As the bank began streamlining, Ms. Roobian was chastised for performing
special services for high net-worth customers. But those duties now form
the core of Roobian & Co., which helps wealthy clients manage their
financial households.
"I handle it all, from paying their bills to their kids' allowances,
and I do it on my schedule," she says, which means most workdays don't
begin until after she's tucked her daughter into bed. "I can spend
the whole day with her if I want, and it's wonderful," says Ms. Roobian,
who's also started a children's arts and crafts studio. "I temped
at first to pay the rent when money got tight, but it's all worked out
beautifully."
No Bed of Roses
Of course, even fantasies have drawbacks. "Leading a fantasy life
appears to bring blissful happiness," says Ms. Hirsch, author of "Love
Your Work and Success Will Follow" (John Wiley & Sons, 1996). "But
succeeding in your new life requires clear thinking to understand that
reality isn't always as idyllic as you might expect."
Ms. Roobian admits that she hasn't had time for an extended vacation
since launching her venture. "I work around my customers' needs, which
means no three-week getaways. But I have lots of three-day weekends."
Mark Evans has a different concern. The former public-library administrator
in upstate New York says he truly enjoys his new life traveling the country
selling memorabilia at collectibles shows, a long-time hobby. "I was
fed up with fighting the state for funding to offer basic services,"
he says, so he quit three years ago when his office was merged with another
50 miles away. "I love the things I sell and the people I meet."
Yet Mr. Evans admits that his business is at the whim of the economy,
so when spending tightens, he's among the first to feel the pinch. "I'm
hopeful that business will improve in the new year," he says. Would
he consider returning to library work? " No way. What I'm doing now
is what I do best -- and enjoy most."