Many professionals want to change their lives but cant envision a different path,
so they stay mired in dead-end careers. But most have more potential than they think. Even
if youve been in the same job for 20 years, there are aspects of your personality
that can be the source of appealing work alternatives and motivate you to change. These
are your possible selves--paths contemplated but not taken.
Consider, for example, a banker who once thought hed run his own business, a
secretary who dreamed of being a writer or an engineer whos discovered he enjoys
actively working with others, for example.
By uncovering possible selves, you can forge a more satisfying and successful work
identity. Possible selves are powerful catalysts for career change because they help you
break career paralysis, rediscover other interests and motivations and remind you that
your abilities transcend your current job. They also can lead you through career
transition gently, allowing you to "practice" a new occupation before committing
to a career change.
Brendan Greer, now 41 years old, uncovered a possible self which enabled him to move
from business to medicine in mid-career. After receiving an M.B.A. from the Wharton School
of Business at the University of Pennsylvania, Mr. Greer worked as a financial analyst in
the movie business. Although he was paid well and enjoyed his job, he was dissatisfied. He
wanted more stimulating and people-oriented work and suspected he would enjoy a career in
medicine.
Dr. Greer tested this newfound possible self by taking pre-med courses at night. Then,
at the age of 32, he entered medical school, eventually specializing in psychiatry. Now a
psychiatrist with a community-based practice in Pennsylvania, Dr. Greer is content.
"Im really happy. I like getting up and going to work every day. I even like
it when I have to go to work two nights a week," he says. As a doctor, he says
hes "come home" because his career encompasses many aspects of his
personality and skills.
A New Career Within You
The idea that people can harness possible selves to create a better personal future was
first suggested in the mid-1980s by psychologist Hazel Markus of Stanford University. She
and several colleagues noted people who had experienced difficult personal situations,
such as growing up in an oppressive family environment, often functioned differently than
other adults. Some were locked into negative images of themselves, while others were able
to function productively. Researchers believe members of the highly functional group were
able to unearth alternative selves that allowed them to see that other possibilities
existed beyond their immediate situation.
"People may be committed to change but cant seem to do it. Possible selves
allow people to cast themselves into a different future," says Regula Herzog, a
social psychologist at the University of Michigan who works with Dr. Markus.
The concept of possible selves is particularly useful if youre contemplating
changing your career. What if the interests and talents you had when you were younger now
could be tapped? As an adult, you can support some of these potential selves in ways never
encouraged before.
Consider my experience. For 11 years in the 1980s and early 1990s, I had a successful
career as a product development and marketing executive for a large bank. When I began
providing informal resume and career direction to colleagues who "survived" two
waves of layoffs, I unexpectedly discovered an earlier possible self who had a passion for
helping others, especially in the corporate world. This led me to leave banking and
eventually start my own career counseling practice.
But possible selves also may enrich your life in ways that dont lead to career
change. You may rediscover creative, interpersonal or technological interests in mid-life
that simply rekindle curiosity and growth. Even if you cant pursue these interests
immediately, you may find you remain conscious of them and more receptive to related
career opportunities.
Many people report a sense of relief as they bring a buried possible self into focus.
It can be fun to fantasize about how your life could be different. This can also motivate
you to explore possible work selves. As you investigate these potential careers, possible
selves help you to grow into a new identity. The more you try out a future self, the more
confident youll feel about making a change and introducing yourself to others in
your chosen field.
Uncover the Possibilities
Finding possible selves that will lead to more satisfying work can be challenging.
Enduring themes that keep resurfacing in your life are a good source. What projects or
activities have you performed reasonably well or have given you a sense of enjoyment or
accomplishment? Look for patterns of skills, interests and environments in these work and
life experiences. If youre unhappy with your current position, you may find your
most meaningful achievements are volunteer, personal or family activities. For example, a
supervisor who spend his career at a firm producing military communications equipment
cited accomplishments from extracurricular activities. They helped him rediscover his gift
for writing and diagnosing and solving structural problems in people (as in physical
therapy) and in buildings (as in engineering and architecture).
Often, childhood accomplishments are good sources of possible selves because they may
reflect abilities you never fully developed. Revisiting these years with a career
counselor can be productive, says Alan Pickman, a psychologist and senior outplacement
consultant at Chase Manhattan Bank Career Services in New York. "We can help clients
uncover their early hopes, dreams and fantasies, back when they were in middle school,
before they were influenced by parents and peers," says Dr. Pickman. "I help
clients connect with their possible selves by asking them what they thought their future
would be like when they were younger."
Also make a list of careers you would like and rate each ones probability for
you. For those youve rated low, seek feedback on how you could surmount the
obstacles you envision.
"A career counselor can actively encourage clients to think more broadly and
creatively," says Dr. Pickman. "Later, the counselor can work with clients who
see too few options as well as those who see too many to balance their passions with
workplace realities." You can also obtain feedback from a trustworthy and supportive
friend who wont feel threatened by your journey.
Guided autobiography -- regularly writing down key aspects of your life -- can help you
capture your possible selves. Start with peak experiences youve had -- vivid events
that were meaningful and enjoyable. Jot down career daydreams. List specific people,
events, experiences or stories that have had a large impact on your life. Youll
uncover abilities you never developed and environments in which you could thrive.
Many people also benefit from listing key decisions theyve made -- the forks in
the road of life. How did you make the decisions that youre happy with? If you had
to make them again, what would you do differently?
You can also discover alternative life plots and possibilities through creative
visualization. First, use a technique such as progressive relaxation (clenching and
releasing muscles groups as you move from head to toe) to become deeply relaxed. Select an
enjoyable scene and use your senses to make it come alive -- what do you see, hear and
smell? Now, pick an experience you wish had turned out differently and see how you would
rewrite it.
Constructing future scenarios is an excellent way to simulate the consequences of
continuing in your present career. Imagine your retirement dinner, for example. What would
the toasts be like if you continue on your current path? Imagine pursuing a different path
and write that retirement speech. What are your reactions?
After you have a new career direction, use your possible selves to move into your new
career. Theyll help you experiment with different options and work roles so you can
let go of your old identity.
Barbara Beckmann, a systems analyst with AT&T Corp. in Short Hills, N.J., went
through this process. Before joining her current employer, she noticed she liked gathering
information and analyzing situations to identify patterns. As she unearthed this possible
self and saw dramatic growth in computer-related jobs, she decided to leave her career
designing and running childrens recreational programs and enroll in computer
training. She grew into her new identity during training and her first computer job. Now,
Ms. Beckmann is prepared to explore her other possible selves and perhaps become a
webmaster or multimedia project director.
Possible selves help you think about and ready yourself for the future. As you do this,
you can start behaving in sync with your new direction. For example, a pollution engineer
in his 50s volunteered to make additional business calls to hone his client skills before
applying for a job as a client manager.
You can also create opportunities to network by practicing the behaviors and sharing
information with people connected with your future job.
Possible selves are powerful allies that can help you identify, explore and transition
to a rewarding career. What are you waiting for?
-- Ms. Scherer, a former outplacement consultant and marketing executive, is
president of Metro Career Services, a career-consulting firm in Millburn, N.J.