Even as the economy improves, a jobless executive may face up to a year or
more of unemployment. This is a lot of time, especially for hard-charging
high-performers who are not used to having any free time. While some job seekers
spend hundreds -- even thousands -- of hours discovering daytime television,
others seem to thrive on activities that boost their professional careers or
resolve family issues when they aren't working.
Having an extended period of free time in the prime of one's life can in fact
be a unique opportunity to focus on volunteer service, professional education or
personal growth.
For Lisa Perez, the wakeup call was burned pork chops. An executive who
previously hadn't been particularly interested in home and hearth, she had
become obsessed with homemaking during a stint of unemployment.
She realized that cleaning and organizing her home wasn't helping her job
search. Nevertheless, "I made lists of 50 things to do every day," says Ms.
Perez, a political and public-relations consultant in Scottsdale, Ariz. "My
house was spotless, just so I'd have something to do."
One day, her boyfriend didn't arrive on time for dinner because he had to
work late, and her pork chops were ruined. She threw a fit. "I'd never been a
person like that," she says. "So I decided to stop feeling sorry for myself, and
go out and do something productive."
Ms. Perez, 35, resolved to become an active volunteer for the duration of her
search. She gave her time to a health-care concern, a housing program and a
political campaign.
Community Involvement
The work bolstered her self-confidence. "Volunteering takes the focus off of
you. One thing you have that's still valuable is your time. And, of course, you
learn that there are thousands of people with a life that's much worse than
yours," she says.
Volunteer assignments are also great ways to meet powerful and well-connected
people. Over a six-month period, her volunteering evolved into working as a paid
consultant and then as a full-time employee, a job she still holds today. In
all, she was unemployed for eight months.
Before her job loss, she thought she didn't have time to volunteer while
working. "Now, even though I have a demanding job, I still volunteer, because of
what I got out of it," says Ms. Perez.
Continuing Education
Gene Bellavance, a 36-year-old information-technology project manager, took
another route during his unemployment. When he was laid off from a steel company
near Cleveland, he knew his immediate prospects were bleak. He expected his
search to take a year. He faced a decision: take a job that would set back his
career or hold out for an offer he really wanted.
Mr. Bellavance, single and virtually debt free, shifted his finances into
survival mode. He cashed out his pension, sold his house, unloaded things he
didn't need at garage sales, and rented an apartment with a roommate. Then, he
says, "I signed up for every benefit I could find."
But he wasn't just waiting out the year. He spent the rest of his search
updating his skills, including becoming certified in new database and
project-management software. "You have to invest in yourself," Mr. Bellavance
says. "I estimated what technology was going to be the most beneficial and chose
applications that were going to be pervasive, that were right for my market, and
that were going to ensure top pay."
In addition to income from the occasional IT-consulting assignment, he relied
on a combination of displaced-worker-retraining grants and unemployment
benefits. "I went out and found the classes, submitted the paperwork, and dealt
with the bureaucracy. You have to stay after them, keeping your benefits moving
forward. It's up to you to make it work with your overall transition plan," he
says.
His job search was one month shy of the full year he'd expected. He looked
for work during his training and says he would have finished the certification
programs even if he'd been hired before completing them.
"People should not feel guilty" about accepting government aid, he says. "I
saw this in a lot of people. They felt they were some kind of loser for taking
benefits. My advice is: Get all you can. You've been paying for these programs
your entire career, and you may as well start to benefit from them."
Family Matters
In addition to pursuing training or volunteering, some displaced careerists
use their time off work to attend to family matters. Many Type-A executives
rediscover their children or find time to help their parents.
Stanford Rappaport held three jobs in San Francisco, including high-tech and
teaching positions. When he was laid off from the high-tech job last year, he
knew it might be a long slog before he could get another post like it in the Bay
Area. "I was able to do the math," says Mr. Rappaport, 46. "The number of people
laid off: huge; and the number of available jobs: miniscule. At the time, I
thought it might be two or three years before the tech industry recovered."
Mr. Rappaport's remaining job, a part-time faculty position with City College
of San Francisco, didn't pay enough to support him. After a couple of months of
searching with no results, he decided to escape the Northern California jobs
meltdown. "My plan," he says, "was to get out of an expensive living situation,
and either seek work in another section of the U.S. or overseas, for those two
years." Mr. Rappaport, who speaks five languages, had worked overseas before.
Before he found an assignment, his Arkansas-based mother was diagnosed with a
serious chronic illness, and he was called into duty as a son. Mr. Rappaport was
able to help his mother get her affairs in order without interrupting his search
by using a San Francisco mail drop and cellphone. "I continued to look for work
in California while I was in Fayetteville, Ark., helping my mother through this
crisis."
He took his mother to medical appointments, made repairs on her house, bought
her a better car, and straightened out her legal and financial affairs. "I even
got to go through my father's effects, which in the five years since he had died
were simply piled in boxes in his office," he says.
Mr. Rappaport's stay in Arkansas lasted six months. "It's amazing that at
this stage I had the opportunity to spend a significant amount of time with my
mother and improve her life and get a lot of things done for her. Most people
never have that opportunity. I'm very thankful that I had the chance. It
was absolutely worth it," he says.
One of the unexpected benefits was the huge boost in confidence he gained
from his role as caregiver. He'd been feeling depressed and defeated when he
left California, but after returning, he felt renewed. He landed a job with a
former employer after returning to San Francisco and remains a part-time faculty
member.
Discovery and Exploration
Instead of spending time off lamenting your unemployed status, ask yourself:
"Is there something I've always wanted to do but haven't because of the demands
of my job?"
- Felice Fisk, a 29-year-old in Seattle, recently left an account-manager
position at a contract-furniture company. During seven months of unemployment,
she rekindled an interest in fine-art painting and completed 18 pieces before
returning to work. "I found the art work, or some kind of creative outlet, to
be really beneficial," she says. She's now an interior designer for an interior-design firm.
- Michael Ross, 42, a former IT administrator in El Cerrito, Calif.,
recently spent his 10 months of unemployment playing guitar and exploring his
lifelong interest in scriptwriting and the movie business. "After 18 years at
my former employer and how hard I had worked, I knew I had to recover, to get
restored," he says. "I looked at this as an opportunity, rather than a
penalty. This was very much about clearing space for me."
At the executive level, even a very efficient and successful job search may
be quite lengthy. It makes sense to spend that time in an enriching and
productive manner. These job seekers pursued service, continuing education and
shoring up family bonds. How you'll look back on a period of unemployment
depends on what you do with it.